Frequently Asked Questions How much do events cost? SPN negotiates the best possible price for each of its activities, and passes that cost on directly to members. Many events have no fixed fees, so you pay only for what you consume. Other events have a fixed price calculated to cover the costs. Some house parties are free, but require you to bring food and beverage to share. There may be an additional charge for guests. Overall, costs to participate in an event are nominal, and much less than you would pay to a for-profit organization for similar events. Why do I have to join? SPN is a membership-based organization, and the $50 annual membership fee pays for all club expenses, including the publication and mailing of our monthly newsletter, our website, as well as subsidizing fixed costs such as live entertainment and events that the organization provides its members free of charge. A number of events are limited only to members, while others may charge an additional fee for non-members. Can you add me to your mailing list? SPN maintains an active e-mail list, which you can subscribe to online on the Membership page. Once you subscribe, you will receive e-mails periodically until such time as you send an e-mail requesting your address to be removed. If you fail to attend an SPN event for any 3-month period, SPN may opt to delete your name from our e-mail list. Can I attend events without being a member? Guests are encouraged to attend several events to get a feel for the organization before joining. We request that interested singles join SPN after 3 activities, or within 3 months of an initial event. That should be sufficient time for you to decide whether you would enjoy SPN. There may be an additional fee (generally $10.00) for some SPN events for non-members. Who belongs to SPN? There are currently in excess of 125 active paid members, with more joining each month. Most members range in age from 40 to 60. Currently 60% of members are female and 40% are male. How do I join? To join SPN, you must submit a signed application, be recommended by a current SPN member, and submit a $50 check or online payment to: SPN Treasurer, SPN, P.O. Box 701216, San Antonio, TX 78270-1216. Each month, the Board of Directors reviews membership applications prior to their approval. Once accepted, you will receive a letter in the mail, along with a wallet-sized SPN identification card. Your membership will be current for 1 year from the month of acceptance. How can I get to know people? To maximize your membership, you’ve got to get involved. Just show up, and someone will welcome you and make you feel at home! One easy way is to attend the Friday night happy hours, which are held each Friday at 5:30 at different popular restaurants. Most people arrive before 6:00 pm, and leave by 8:00, many moving to the dining room to eat dinner together and then heading out to dance at a local hot spot. You are requested to host or sponsor an event in the first 6 months of your membership – this is a great way to break the ice and get involved.